My slogan is be the one to be the change. Be the one to be the change that you want in this world, if you could not get it then you must be that change for others.

May be you can be that change for someone else.

For me there are two kinds of people in this regard. the first one is that I endured this I must not let others endure the same. and the other one is, it was like this when it was for me, now others will also feel the same as me. I cannot say any of these people wrong because situations are different for everybody and i cannot feel what they felt at that time. So, Only I can say this that if we want we can change these so called traditions that only cause pan to others because these traditions have been made by us, the humans not the God. Traditions are beautiful things to celebrate, to cherish but if these traditions become painful, agonizing and unbearable for somebody, these must be terminated.

Some traditions that have no sense but pain.

Gender Reveal:

This the most stupid thing people do when it comes to a family. I don't know why people think that it matters to be a girl or boy. There are so many people who don't have kids, they don't discriminate, they don't wish for a boy, they just wan the baby, they want to be blessed. We don't have to do this, and it doesn't seem like anyone's getting much out of it other than some social media pictures and cake.

One of the big problems with gender reveals is that they aren't actually that. Gender is based on social and cultural differences between the sexes. What we can tell about a child at birth is their sex (what genitals they're born with). Gender refers to what societal norms are placed on them based on their sex.